Spare me. especially towards Chinese superstitious people. Have you read Find A Grave's Help section on what to do if your Edit is declined? . If u persist you are banned for harassing the top contributor who now manages the Memorial "you" created. Within 5 miles of your location. I am absolutely revolted! My comment is not directed at those who do it for their own genealogy or add friends. FuryH, My mother-in-law's site is totally inaccurate; says where she's buried. posts. Janet, directly under the memorial's information, select 'suggest edits'. The family story and history is greatly important; to me, and to others. If the family wants their relatives and has proved the relationship, then their request should be honored. So, NO the I wouldn't trust anyone who did genealogy research using Find A Grave. Because all of a sudden there's a name on my Google profile page with my Name ( it has a couple ofe letters that R not the same spelling).This woman that passed born in 1901..died at 94. cemeteries found within miles of your location will be saved to your photo volunteer list. Kristy is an internationally known Psychic Medium and Psychic Detective. I told her I would not give her the death notice or pictures, she harassed me and it was done anyway without our knowledge. everyone should be equal and should have privacy. I have no way to access to my account. Don't buy into it. "Be mindful of what you say and you must have respect dealing with this." We welcome you to Grave Matters. These so called "major contributors" also post family photos they have swiped from the net. Really? Not everyone who takes photos of graves is unwilling to respond. dead person family can still object if they dont want. He must of went through the grave yard and saw this grave with my nephews middle name and last name on his temporary marker. It was sudden, he was in the prime of his life. Send that to the person clearly outlining your direct relationship. My response is that there are too many members on Find A Grave who do NOT follow the rules. SO HELP OUT! We have set your language to son. I think Find a Grave is a great site, but, I'm a little concerned with some certain people postings, especially on my ancestors that have been posted by people who do not do the research or who put in the wrong information. Submit a complaint and get your issue resolved. if you harass the creatoer or the grave page owner, they will report you harass them and they will ban your profile in findagrave. I have been asking for four years for Wendy EBENSTEIN Norman - Find a Grave ID [protected] to transfer William Ambrose Kogomo Sky-Eagle Sr. Memorial ID [protected] to me. This includes both general and info of a more private nature that most families do nor want published on the net. Explore All Topics and Services on USA.gov Top By scanning the Internet, you can find and save more than 180 million graves worldwide. Information provided is not true. If so, we already had this talk. If you really not wish photo being f###ed by starngers, dont put them on line Find a Grave has the right to delete any User, for any reason. Search tips Photo of Antioch Pioneer Cemetery by Harold & Wanda Blackwell On this day Tony Meehan was born on this date in 1943. I have a good clue who is doing this to our flowers we leave on confederate veterans memorials. The site would consist solely of faked pictures. Since my daughter's crime is unsolved I have reported this to the detectives on the case. putting undead people photo on die site. They typically do that when a member has a long history of violating their site policies. You haven't done anything wrong. You're not alone in your complaint. So yeah! now findagrave even suspended me and deleted my dead freind burial records. Please check your email and click on the link to activate your account. Choose a topic below to begin. theft is wrong. All this and more with just a few taps. It is very obvious that he is upset with Find-A-Grave. I mean, it's a "public" cemetery, not one in private family hands and as mentioned in a earlier post, when you die the privacy is gone, period. if you harass someone they will report to Findagrave staff and your account will be ban, Ladybug is just one of those rude f## people. Use it to search for burial information and gravestone images among the 160 million online memorials volunteers have logged at Find A Grave. Kind regards, I am a private person in life and I want privacy when I die. "if you can prove you are a direct relative"How is proving done over the internet to a stranger ? All because they are not respectful of families and not responsible for the content. I feel sorry for you, and I can understand about feeling like you have been exploited.At the same time though if It had not been for find a grave .com. I dont think anyone takes photos of headstones to hurt anyone but only to help others find where their ancestors/relatives were laid to rest and to preserve history. We are no longer private people. Manager bases their reasoning for not correcting this on a cemetery advertisement that was below my loved one's obituary and responded that "you don't know what you're talking about." In memory of your daughter, why don't you start a family tree of your own, for your relatives and descendants to enjoy. i added family memorials for genealogy purposes so that future generations would easily track ancestors. Most of us do it to honor your family member and to ensure in 100 years, their descents have a way to feel more connected. ----- I can't tell you how many old cemeteries I've documented that were in such total disrepair and vandalism that you couldn't read the stones even after you put them back together. It shouldn't be about having 7, 000 memorials, nor should anyone "own" a cemetery (I had an issue with a woman over that as well and finally decided the hell with her, if she didn't have one of the people buried, than I added it). If you are having problems with your account or have questions about content on the site, please use the Account Question or Support Request option. They were being my managed by Patsy Lubben DiMarco who IGNORES transfer requests. Request a headstone photo or snap one yourself and share it instantly. THAT's THE REAL DISHONOR. I thank them for their time and move on. She said "you can not ruin people precious hard work" which makes me underlook her. In my case I created a memoral 4 my Grandmother and also a memorial for a favoured child who died in infancy. This is not hard work. No, that's not what it means. Everyone feels differently about this though. See Wikipedia for more.. Find A Grave; Genealogy data can be searched for by entering the name of a person to find where that person is buried. That Find a Grave be consistent. com. There are tons of memorials created every day with information about surviving relatives; but Find a Grave allows it, as long as nobody says anything. Then rebaptize the dead into the Mormon faith. Stop awarding points like trophies. I do not care how many countless hours "Find A Grave's cyber ghouls put into it. And almost as many gravestone photos. The fact alone that you are completely disregarding this mothers concerns shows how much you actually care. First, if you already asked Wendy to transfer the memorial to you and she ignored you, I would recommend contacting support@findagrave.com (if you already didn't) and ask them to give the memorial to you. I haven't had any problems with anyone or them, so don't have a clue what is going on. If someone was cremated and the ashes given to someone, there is no cemetery. Desired outcome: The new "Complaints" page was created by the same person, Mr. Pritchard, who contributed the 13 complaints. Not true. Begin your search by either entering the cemetery name and location (by city, county, state, or country), or you can browse cemeteries by location. My name is Bill Sky-Eagle. I need to confirm my email address with Find a Grave..I don't know why is a leget address..I was thinking maybe all a SCAM. I mean, it's a "public" cemetery, not one in private family hands and as mentioned in a earlier post, when you die the privacy is gone, period. My complaint was with those who rush to submit the memorial as soon as they can-whether they have any connection to the person, the cemetery, or the general area. Learn more about requesting management here. Get those cheap skates to pay you! BS..Find A Grave is a hang out for graveyard ghouls. Yes, I know what they are supposed to do.. Find A Grave is also owed by Mormons who get browie points 4 baptising the dead into their faith. It may seem shocking to someone unfamiliar with this whos just lost someone young, but please know nothing bad is intended. I wish you good luck and I hope they've taken it down, I sincerely apologize for what you must be/have been going through/went through. As for memorials being an invasion of privacy, while I feel for the woman who didn't want her daughter's stone put up on the website, if I had a photo up and a family member asked me to remove it I would. Forever Missed's top package is something like $30.00 bucks. Sherry Maccanico, Desired outcome: their family and freinds HAD EVERY RIGHTS TO ASK FINDAGRAVE REMOVE THAT RECORD. By CVal, 2 hours ago. There was facks about my Grate grand mother that had been compiled on his web site telling where she was born in Ireland, all the exact details about her life, Who her brother was ? This website uses future generations as an excuse to take photos of children, babies, adults, of all ages and post them online. Maybe a mom from my father who died 1974. everyone wants the records to be as correct as we can get them! For more than 15 years we have helped nearly 50000 customers resolve their issues and will never stop striving to ensure further improvements on our platform for a better communication between companies and customers. Find A Grave has many untrue information. i tried to explain the situation but they stopped replying. When I got to my ggg grandmother, I went to connect her memorial to one of her daughter's memorials which just so happened to be managed by a person named "Scout" who LITERALLY is managing over 200,000 Ancestry company - "Findagrave" is effectively holding my grandparents memorials hostage. Take William Butten's find-a-grave memorial. It is invasion of privacy, and simply does not follow any morals. Find A Grave continues its mission to provide a collaborative community where members can contribute memorials and record burial dispositions If you have any questions regarding this or any other matters pertaining to Find A Grave, please do not hesitate to contact senior administration directly at support@findgrave.com Sincerely, Find A Grave I started on there when it first started as a way to link my family and friends family for future generations, but once they started making it a contest it became distasteful and grotesque. the email is from his daughter (she claim it's his daughter) but sounds like it's pretending his daughter. Youll find helpful information about your account here or you can use this form to send us questions about account issues. This browser does not support getting your location. It was founded in 1995 by Salt Lake City resident, Jim Tipton. Some of us are private people and just want to be left alone. This is very basic courtesy. Showing 1-1 | Showing Page 1 of 1. Contributors need to respect that, Desired outcome: This is an ethics issue here ! I already had a memorial created soon after my nephews passing. The family moved to the Mohawk Community in Greene County when Tom was three years old because the Norris Dam took their farm. I understand you way too well, and I am so sorry that they lack enough common sense to put that sort of private information up online. I'd like to say that this website is in fact, not a blessing. This is true even on Newspapers.com (also owned by Ancestry). Furthermore, nobody actually "owns" a grave. I never heard back so it's still there. Mormons believe u enter the after life based on "works" namely procreation, In life Mormons collect huge volumes of data. Findagrave is gross and obscene. Search above to list available cemeteries. What burns me up is when people sitting at home are too lazy to go out and take real photos and instead make a memorial from an obituary with useless or private information about the deceased and family members and add the obituary photo of the deceased. So you are one of those obnoxious [censored]s who think that if there isn't a burial, then there isn't a point in adding it? However she has not had a burial service, I'm looking at her urn right now and her obituary stated "private internment held at a later date". I don't see reasons for the anguish. Salt Lake City UT. Desired outcome: I have been a member of Find-A-Grave for close to 9 months and submitted over a thousand photos and memorials that many people are grateful to find. Truly pathetic. If you look closely at Find A Grave you will notice that all of the memorial information is on the right-hand side of the page and there is a space on the left-hand side of the page that contains these huge banner ads. If I was that person whose picture is there I would be very upset. Please contact me within 14 business days, or you will be hearing from my attorney. Delete anything you don't want. John married Eliza (or Elizabeth) Moody at St Ann, Belfast, Northern Ireland on Christmas Eve 1864. Another example is Captain Samuel Chew, who died on 4 Mar 1778. we are adults providing precious information to those who cannot visit a grave site. People add information to the site by walking a cemetery and taking pictures, or from obituaries, other records or from information they have about family members. Not everyone who provides this service (and yes it is a service maybe not to you NOW but to future generations who will be very happy someone like me gifted my time and love for family history to make sure their ancestor could be found.. definitely). I had my fathers memorial, my grandfathers, my grandmother, my great grand parents stolen from my control by someone who isn't related. I am wandering am I, going to have to pay Ancestery .Com now for all the info that was suppose to be free on find. see that photo on findagrave site. I could not have been able to see my fathers grave plot at all. if you put your daughter photo online, anyone can also use it without letting you know this fraud is a sociopathic means of lying and a person getting their false praise and getting money for their prostitution. These indexes on Ancestry.com are free to use by everyone, whether you have a subscription or not. 42.5k. Owner block you. I would say that many members provide relevant information and are not "collectors" of graves and the service they provide in invaluable. I got threatened with police action because the evil administrators refused to give my account back after it was removed. (They want to email Ms. DiMarco to ask if shes related to MY grandparents). yes ask findagrave admin delete that photo. Have you tried contacting him on the memorial's Edit page? We may not have all the burials in a given cemetery, just those that people have added. So I've been a member of [censored] for about About 3 months now, and the only reason I entered the website was to find my ancestors and connect a few branches. Plan to go early in the day, in case it takes you a while to find the exact location. It is both hurtful and embarrassing to family members. if the person died, findagrave must let the person stay in their site, even if they had not have tombstone/headstone. yes it's funeral site. 1, Report #1386798. I have a person doing that with my relatives on my grandparents side of the family and he refuses to turn them over to me. Many f## people are very unfriednly, when ladybug reported you, findagrave banned you so you can NOT see anything. Find a Grave states that this is against their guidelines. I know this person and his family . I use it to the best of my ability to help others. If you are hoping to find the grave of a specific relative, then you will need to have some vital record information: Full name (first, middle, last) Date of birth Date of death Location of death You can find full names and birthdates on family bibles or baptismal and census records. from 5 Stanford Green, Walkinstown, Dublin Find A Grave does not allow Photo Volunteers to charge money for volunteering. Brought in dead to The Meath Hospital, Heytesbury Street, Dublin, having had a Coronary Occlusion & Paroxysmal Tachycardia, certified Its directed at those whos compulsion is to have as many as they can for their own greedy ego. Assure them you'll go legal and watch then cave. It isn't about money or the amount of headstones I can download, it is about carrying on family history. I am sure you can find another forum for that discussion. The person who took my great grandfathers memorial has captured over 50,000 souls and she cannot do a simple favor! NO I DID NOT! The Find a Grave app is a great way to use and add to the world's largest free online collection of burial information. Find a Grave is connected to Ancestry. In fact, he has added pictures that he took from one of my memorials without any attribution and he cropped the picture to remove my uncle from the picture. Memorials of: Robert Paul Carmichael #[protected] and Jessie Jacobs Carmichael #[protected], You get no place trying to get find a grave ghouls to transfer memorials back to the family even though it is protocal to do so. This comment was posted by a verified customer. Most people defending this site use finding a passed family member from hundreds of years ago as an excuse, and I understand that, however I do not understand that they take pictures of children only recently passed. The bottom-lineNot every family wants to be part of "Find A Grave's internet kingdom." Find a Grave - Online Search. I have had Bios i wrote stolen and posted elsewhere with no mention of me writing those. I took a picture of that visible headstone and attach it to the memorial I did not delete someone else work that is totally disrespectful. As for it being private, we all are public knowledge now and after we die. I don't know who she is. Filing a complaint with local law enforcement though, is just plain wrong, a waste of taxpayer money. if findagrave not allow, it's disrespectful to that real-dead person. Put a new memorial or photo on an existing one, and use the memorial's location and photo to make it more visible. Saying "there is no reason" is like a petulant child plugging their ears. Create a findagrave.com account and then click "suggest edits" and then there will be an option to request management of the memorial. If a family member has asked you to remove a memorial, than you do it. Ask for permission. A findagrave monitor is removing our confederate veterans tokens of respect and replacing them with hideous looking fake purple violets. You wrote: When a member will not relinquish a memorial to a direct family member (as stated in the rules), then they are breaking the rules and they should loose their privilege to use Find A Grave. Stop awarding points like trophies. aged 43, married But why bother. Find a Grave is a fantastic app that allows you to add to the world's largest online cemetery database and search for graves. Ruby is right. You then control exactly what's on the memorial. Please enter your email address and we will send you an email with a reset password code. Stone doesn't last forever . The faithful go there to have extended families, extended spouses and an eternity of children/ For those who don't make it there a lower levela work camp of sorts kind of like a purgatory. Desired outcome: Open to both member questions and member answers. They're making a tidy bundle off of your work. I am having trouble, I manage several of my family graves and I am not able to log in and no one is returning my emails, I haven't been able to find a phone number. But what they did do is give control to someone who claims to be related through my third great grandfathers brother. There was a problem getting your location. If you do not want others to see you name or your daughter's do not put it on the stone. Many memorials are created with information about survivors. I cannot get back in F.A.G. FindAGrave is pure grossess. I'll believe it when I see it; I can't imagine this being anywhere on the internet. May I add most of the memorials r created by bored housewives who make a game of how many of these things they can make. the important is all funeral and headstone photos must be authorized and legitimate and the owner let you use. If you can't find someone on the site, it's probably just . "When someone creates a memorial, that means they were either related to this person or a close personal friend."